..in a state of after effects of personal crisis, so no use of posting something what I shall say in temper and anguish, so NO POST AS OF NOW.
Last few days was disastrous, cried after 3 years for 3 hours, became weak or rather realized that I am become weak since 2007.
Spoke hell lot of rubbish, misread people, lost personal battles against people whom I intended to prove that things could be different, my dreams shattered with faults less of my own, trusted blindly and loved madly.
Apologies to all who tolerated me throughout and even to the one person who didn't tolerate my abusive behavior and hence took the least expected actions.
Repenting for it or is it acting? I do not know..
I had to make some tough calls for life.
Now all over..equations have changed, mistakes realized, facilities withdrawn and I have come out stronger and experienced!
What goes around comes around...I felt it now.
"Be happy always, I am happy if you are happy"
For now this much..Sorry and Thanks
How to tell when you're about to get the boot – personal experience of Anirban.
One day, you are madly in love. You're cuddling on the couch, hearing love songs and feeding each other kurkure. And that's when it happens: Your partner sits you down for the "It's-Not-You, It's-Me" talk. You're confused and left wondering, "How could I have missed the signs?"
Breaking up is never easy. Your ego and heart are bound to get bruised. But if you could just see the breakup coming, it might make the whole business easier to stomach.
Top five signs you're about to get dumped
1. Picking fights. No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.
2. Forgetting to call. Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make weekend plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running hours late. Take note of excuses like: ‘was busy, boss was there or forgot’, It may seem obvious, but ‘number is busy in another call’ syndrome is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date. Previously in good times, your partner used to herself divulge who she was engaged in conversation with, but when time comes that you have to prod and get the name out, something is definitely fishy! When you prod, the obvious answers are – boss, best friend or relative.
3. Changing their stripes. A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off (or straightened) their hair, change in wardrobe, wears clothes other than what you like her to wear, wearing flashy-revealing clothes in public, etc major changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.
4. Criticizing. If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered.
5. Losing sexual interest. A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss.
Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup.
If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance.
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NOTE: I had a breakup. Although the big decision was entirely of my partner (who otherwise couldn't take critical decisions in her life, she needed me to be there, can’t figure out how she took this one, maybe someone else is there now to help her with her decisions!), but I take blame for the above listed point no. 4, which was a fault on my part. All the other points were signs as the article title states –‘Break up Warning Signs’ which did play its roles
Point no. 5 is a general and the most common point.
I am still getting over it, if I am able to analyze any more signs, I will listed it her. Till then take care and as I said not to panic, you still have time to sit down and sort things out, I never had the chance. It came all of a sudden (like Rama Rao’s misfortune); all was fine, reasons-signs built up within and then the right time to strike. Was it needed?
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..in a state of after effects of personal crisis, so no use of posting something what I shall say in temper and anguish, so NO POST AS OF NOW.
